Although, maybe not a wedding budget sound interesting, not necessarily a negative thing. On the other hand, planning a wedding without a budget is the easiest way to start a marriage in serious debt. The key to success is really basic. Open and honest communication is a must.
Affianced couples need to talk about what they both want for their big day. Although, most women start planning their big day in five, they still need room for opinion grooms as well. Women working on the assumption that men do not care about the details but it is not always true. This is, after all, the day of the men, too.
After high involvement disappear, go to a place and discuss what is really important for each of you. Communication is really key in this point.This is the point where you have to make a list of what is absolutely necessary in your marriage. You will use this information when it is time to allocate your budget.